Motivational Monday: 5 simple steps to have a better life

Monday, October 31, 2016

Dear friend,
I know sometimes it feels like life just sucks.
But, everything is okay. I promise.
Trust me. It will be better soon.
Don't give up.
If you need me, I am here to listen, to help, to give you advice.
We can talk for hours until you feel good again.
Hope you are doing well.
Lots of love,

ps. I wrote down some of my ways to make myself feel better. Hope it helps you too.

1. Be yourself
You are one of a kind and there is no one out there quite like you. So don't be afraid or ashamed to be yourself, whoever that may be. Don't fake it, that will not take you far in life. Accept who you are and make the best version out of you. You have the ability to create this awesome life for you and the time is now to do that.

2. Choose wisely 
People give and people take. People live out of energy. They are attracted to good vibes. So, be smart where you spend your energy and who you spend your time with. The most interesting part is that if you give more, you will have more. But don't drain yourself. Don't force yourself. Choose wisely. 

3. Plan everything
Make a realistic plan and stick with it. If you have a plan of your daily tasks, wishes, goals and stuff you need to do, write them down on a piece of paper and finish them one by one. Start from the hardest. If you can't make something happen leave it for later. Don't be stuck on one thing. Do more, be more.

4. Take your time
In this time and age, we are always running to catch up with the numbers on the clock. That ticking of the little movements that the arrows make reminds us that we are on some kind of daily schedule. Organize yourself. Write down your thoughts. Take your time to wake up, to get ready, to learn something new, to adapt, to change. Don't waste your time on something that does not make you happy, healthy or inspired.

5. Enjoy yourself 
The hardest thing to understand is that you only have to live with yourself everyday. Be your own best friend first and be your own love of your life before you let anyone else enter you most private parts of your heart and soul. If you love yourself, that does not mean that you are narcissistic. That means you can take care of yourself and you don't need anyone else to do that for you. If you love yourself it is easier to love someone else without the feeling that they may owe you something. Nobody owes you anything. Love is for free.

Don't take anything too seriously. Remember, you only live once.

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